Developing Dads Podcast

The Importance of Hobbies as a Dad The Art of Starting Something New

Episode Summary

In this episode of the Developing Dads podcast, Neil and Gordon discuss their recent experiences and hobbies. Gordon is in full prep mode for the arrival of his second child, while Neil shares his recent trip to Copenhagen and his newfound hobby of trail biking with his kids. They explore the importance of hobbies and how they bring joy and fulfillment outside of family life. They also discuss the challenges of starting a new hobby and the satisfaction that comes with improving and mastering it. The conversation explores the reluctance to start new hobbies and the fear of being a beginner. It discusses the importance of embracing the process of learning and the enjoyment that comes from being a beginner. The conversation also touches on the idea of competition and achievement in hobbies, as well as the role of parents in providing entertainment and engagement for their children. The hosts share personal experiences and discuss the value of hobbies in personal growth and connection with others.

Episode Notes

• Hobbies provide a sense of fulfillment and joy outside of family life.
• Having hobbies allows individuals to bring new experiences and stories to share with their family.
• Starting a new hobby can be challenging, but the satisfaction of improvement and mastery is rewarding.
• Many middle-aged men may have lost their hobbies or stopped pursuing new ones, possibly due to a fear of starting again or a lack of time and energy. Embrace the process of learning and enjoy being a beginner in new hobbies.
• Don't be afraid to start something new and be willing to look stupid or make mistakes.
• Hobbies can provide a sense of achievement and happiness, but it's important to consider the motivation behind them.
• Parents play a crucial role in providing entertainment and engagement for their children.
• Hobbies can foster personal growth and connection with others.

00:00Introduction and Catching Up

03:23Nesting and Redecorating

05:43Neil's Trip to Copenhagen

09:25Trail Biking as a New Hobby

13:37Challenges of Hobbies with Young Kids

18:01The Suck of Starting a New Hobby

19:47The Occasion and Social Aspects of Hobbies

21:33Hobbies as Something of Your Own

29:19Trying Out New Hobbies

33:59Competition and Achievement in Hobbies

39:24The Role of Parents in Providing Entertainment

41:14Hobbies as a Path to Personal Growth and Connection